tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post2167256674759636612..comments2023-11-22T21:30:35.388-06:00Comments on My Own Mind blog / Homeschool Atheist Momma: 12 Homeschool Myths BUSTED by HomeschoolersKarenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03309932952235453461noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-54871782483777430652012-02-13T18:22:31.829-06:002012-02-13T18:22:31.829-06:00Isn't it funny how people think they know so m...Isn't it funny how people think they know so much about homeschoolers but have usually never met any. Great post. It made me chuckle.Lacihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07994799121581545752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-56747142996128838132012-02-10T22:26:06.025-06:002012-02-10T22:26:06.025-06:00This one gorgeous spring day, a few moms and I had...This one gorgeous spring day, a few moms and I had our kids at this little pond park. We were checking out the wildlife with our field observation instruments, including this kick ass little microscope I have for "the field".<br />We were observing about a dozen little frogs that would just hang there in the water. It was COOL. We were observing lots of other stuff too...<br /><br />Well, this pond has a middle school next door. At some point, a teacher walked about a hundred kids over (OK, maybe it just seemed like a hundred) to study life at the surface of the pond, the middle layer of water, and the bottom of the pond.<br />This LOUD bunch of kids tromp over the bridge, laughing, pushing, yelling, running, ETC, totally running the wildlife off.<br />The teacher yelled loudly to be heard, reminding the kids of their lesson for the day. She kept looking at me sideways, smirking! LOL Like she was so proud to be TEACHING the kids something.<br /><br />After about twenty minutes, they all tromped away, leaving us to the quiet and active little pond.<br />Our kids learned SEVERAL lessons that day...<br />;-)Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03309932952235453461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-70701283971253487442012-02-10T11:36:43.052-06:002012-02-10T11:36:43.052-06:00I agree with Cathy that "it depends," wh...I agree with Cathy that "it depends," which seems to be the whole point of the questionnaire. "One size fits all" assumptions about homeschoolers just don't apply. :-)momof3feistykidshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15622239947336967007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-50117152490748504892012-02-10T08:51:46.790-06:002012-02-10T08:51:46.790-06:00What you say is true Cathy. My kids are younger an...What you say is true Cathy. My kids are younger and sometimes they just cannot get their ya yas out. So I pull up an educational computer game and let em rip! And in their PJs too. <br /><br />I don't know why people get so upset over that. I see people in their PJs at the store. At least we keep it in the house!bpbproadrunnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18204358689859044850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-5358930576258012282012-02-10T08:48:51.643-06:002012-02-10T08:48:51.643-06:00That has happened to us. We have our cameras and o...That has happened to us. We have our cameras and our binoculars and we go on hikes at local parks. And we have learned that schoolkids cannot be quiet at all. They sound like a herd of crazed buffalo running through the woods and scare every bit of wildlife off for miles. This has happened to us several times. It has gotten to the point that we just leave and go somewhere else. Because if the whole point of being out is to observe and record, then when that happens, then achieving that goal becomes highly improbable. And it's not like the kids talk to us. So there is no play and there are no animals. <br /><br />I have to say, we aren't very sympathetic at all. When we watch them tear up the trails and pull green wood off of trees and rip flowers up, it just plain pisses us off.bpbproadrunnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18204358689859044850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-12527125266282768322012-02-09T22:43:19.030-06:002012-02-09T22:43:19.030-06:00OH, I've heard many a homeschool kid heave tha...OH, I've heard many a homeschool kid heave that heavy sigh and say "Oh NO...bus."Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03309932952235453461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-82894651590759968682012-02-09T18:15:01.303-06:002012-02-09T18:15:01.303-06:00While my kids were still "school-aged" (...While my kids were still "school-aged" (they're all 20-something now), they used to have a very bad impression about school kids-in-general (although of course they all knew and liked particular school kids) because of the behavior of school kids on field trips. We would be at a museum, say, or park or beach with our homeschool group, and when school buses pulled up, the kids (not the adults) were heaving huge sighs of "Oh, no!" The school kids seemed like an unruly, noisy, physically rough mob. I tried to make my kids more tolerant by pointing out that school kids were normally SO cooped up, it was natural for them to freak out when given freedom.Cathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14193364064153971972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-38134444306963266632012-02-09T18:10:08.290-06:002012-02-09T18:10:08.290-06:00As you said, the answer to many of these myths is ...As you said, the answer to many of these myths is "it depends." Several of the myths (maybe #2, 4, and 6) point to unschoolers rather than to homeschoolers who use curricula and do formal academics--and if these stereotypes are seen as negative, even accusations, I believe they spring from jealousy more than genuine concern. My kids unschooled, and there was quite a bit of pajama-time, fun, and computer gaming during their childhoods--and those are some of the very good things about homeschooling!Cathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14193364064153971972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-79502472342850073452012-02-08T11:35:14.450-06:002012-02-08T11:35:14.450-06:00It's funny that this topic came up. I bet we c...It's funny that this topic came up. I bet we could make a a small play list of popular music about schools:<br /><br />From The Wall, Another Brick in the Wall -"How Can You have any pudding if you don't eat your meat?" We were listening to that song in the car the other day, and my eldest commented on how the person who wrote it must have hated school immensely. "No Dark Sarcasm in the Classroom, Teacher leave those Kids Alone." <br /><br />It's a pretty dark song. Unfortunately it rang true with my public school experiences for the most part. It must resonate with a lot of people--seeing how that song is 40 years old and still gets air time on contemporary radio stations. <br /><br />I also recall Harper Valley PTA song. <br /><br />Now I have to get on MOG and make a play list and see what I can find --positive and negative. <br /><br />Don't Stand So Close to me by Sting-about a teacher attracted to his underage female students [yikes!]<br /><br />This will be an interesting exercise. <br /><br />Movies and books too. Hmmmm. I sense fodder for many new blog posts and conversations :)bpbproadrunnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18204358689859044850noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-7446836531840013182012-02-07T22:04:54.421-06:002012-02-07T22:04:54.421-06:00I know, right!I know, right!Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03309932952235453461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-59067315421791007062012-02-07T22:03:52.919-06:002012-02-07T22:03:52.919-06:00You made a great point. My son's only percept...You made a great point. My son's only perception of public school, despite my efforts to clear up his misperceptions, comes primarily of the media. He believes that all schools have terrible bullies, uncaring or hostile teachers, and LOTS of singing and dancing.<br />LOLKarenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03309932952235453461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-9488591532434407412012-02-07T18:28:55.684-06:002012-02-07T18:28:55.684-06:00The whole idea of asking homeschoolers what their ...The whole idea of asking homeschoolers what their stereotypes are of public school kids are like is so awesome! I can't wait to read what you learned! Of course, many families don't homeschool for every grade, so many homeschoolers have truly informed opinions. I've noticed my son's ideas about what school is like overwhelmingly come from children's literature, where school is often the source of the conflict in the story- bullies, cliques, peer pressure, unsympathetic teachers, uncaring or completely oblivious parents... Popular media has a lot to say about school, and not much of it is positive. This scares me. I'd love to say we'll always be able to homeschool our son, and that's definitely our intention, but no one can ever tell what life will throw at them. I don't want my son to have a completely hostile view of public school, just in case he really does have to go there someday, so I don't regard these portrayals as helpful! And where are the homeschoolers in children's media? They are all but nonexistent.Laura Lucanidaehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17421694569082580775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-40467744964778607432012-02-07T16:55:01.040-06:002012-02-07T16:55:01.040-06:00Homeschooling is such a huge adventure. I am almos...Homeschooling is such a huge adventure. I am almost always astounded that there are people who believe that public school is the norm. It wasn't until the late 1800's that the school building became known to some. There are a ton of variables in the homeschooling adventure.Crystal Jeffershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05618128591306668911noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-56369822252703847542012-02-07T13:04:51.050-06:002012-02-07T13:04:51.050-06:00In my house, two of us are total night owls and I ...In my house, two of us are total night owls and I am SO glad we homeschool. My daughter would have such a difficult trying to get up mornings and such...I oughta know! I remember, back in the day, wishing I could be in school at midnight instead of at 9 am.<br /><br />Also, you are SO right. I was a smart kid and I totally got teased for raising my hand, answering the teacher's questions, and PARTICIPATING in class. I'm glad you pointed that out; I'd forgotten.<br /><br />I think that the major point of the post is that the kids answered "that depends" to nearly everything. Basically saying, Don't Stereotype us!<br /><br />Interestingly enough, I have more to this post. Then, after this conversation, I asked the kid what stereotypes that THEY have about public school kids...<br />THEN I asked a good public school kid to reply to those...<br />More to come!<br />Stay tuned!Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03309932952235453461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-25138928700060500192012-02-07T07:38:28.599-06:002012-02-07T07:38:28.599-06:00I wish we had more friends. It seems that the reli...I wish we had more friends. It seems that the religious thing gets in the way in these parts. But that being said, we are not lonely due to being unfriendly. Many people assume we are religious and cut us off before even getting to know us. Some people are disappointed that we are not religious and have done the same. <br /><br />Super Smart--that is code for *That kid actually likes doing homework and learning things. Remember in public school it is not unusual for kids to be bullied if they excel too much in academics by other children. <br /><br />WE sleep late all the time. But we also stay up late with our books and sketch books reading and drawing. We are night owls. Good thing we home-school too. Our natural tendencies in this regard would affect grades and performance in a normal school setting because their schedule would clash with ours. <br /><br />Parents can't teach high school? Oh my dear--well maybe some can't or perhaps they believe they can't. There are no such issues in this household. If anything teaching the early grades is more difficult. But as the children catch up with the adults, it gets easier and easier. <br /><br />I am tired of people who saw Bachman talk about home-homeschooling one time on the campaign trail, and then just, jumping off of that cliff trying to conclude that all home-schoolers are just like Michelle Bachman.bpbproadrunnerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18204358689859044850noreply@blogger.com