tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post1636404384436837529..comments2023-11-22T21:30:35.388-06:00Comments on My Own Mind blog / Homeschool Atheist Momma: How to Explain Religion to my ChildKarenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03309932952235453461noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-84499614598754167752013-02-20T19:49:41.889-06:002013-02-20T19:49:41.889-06:00Also the book 'Maybe Yes, Maybe No'Also the book 'Maybe Yes, Maybe No'Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03309932952235453461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-75122746488840506782013-01-07T23:21:52.185-06:002013-01-07T23:21:52.185-06:00Eliza, thank you for your very thoughtful comment....Eliza, thank you for your very thoughtful comment.<br />I hope you see that I have not ever used the words "Stupid" or "silly" or "evil" to describe anything, nor did I imply them! Also, my kids have friends from many different religious and traditions. So they do deeply experience different views of life from wonderful and intelligent people that they love and respect. no IQ test necessary. ;-)<br /><br />And YES, I DID explain religion to my children as I stated in my post:<br />"people are very curious and smart and really wanted answers, but didn't have them. SO, in the absence of really knowing, people will often make up stories to explain things to themselves."<br /><br />I, in no way, wish to offend you or your beliefs. Only to show the need for our early ancestors to find explanations for things in the natural world that they didn't understand. In looking for "explanations", often 'magical entity' was used in the place of 'unknown'.Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03309932952235453461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-24199733489135917062013-01-07T09:19:52.319-06:002013-01-07T09:19:52.319-06:00So you teach your children that people belive in l...So you teach your children that people belive in lies because it gives them comfort? That is simply untrue. It is an atheist myth that all religious people are stupid and unreflected. Some people take comfort in their beliefs yes - just like your children apparently take comfort in the circle of life. Most people believe what they are told, that goes in a very religious country like the U.S.A, BUT it also goes in a very secular country like Denmark where I come from. Some religious people are unreflected, some are undoubtably stupid, but I dare say that is also true of some Atheists. And there are plenty of the other kind - Intelligent, reflected people who believe in God. People who know (and understand) all your arguments, who know, understand and respect/accept modern science, who know and understand about philosophy and psychology - but come to a different conclusion than you. Does that make them stupid and silly? Or does it just mean that while the facts are the same, the interpretation can be different? Do you think that people who have a different view of politics, despite having access to the same facts as you, are stupid? If you want to tell your children the truth you could tell them this (which you could also tell them if you were religious): Some people believe what they are told - that goes for both religious people and atheists. Some people think for themselves - that also goes for both sides. Some don't want to listen to what the other side has to say, while others will - that also goes for both sides. And some investigate both sides fairly and get to a conclusion that is either the same as or different from mine. I don't nessecarily understand how people come to a different conclusion than mine - but that does not make them stupid OR silly OR scared of reality OR evil - and that also goes for both sides. <br />Lastly I want to say I am sorry if this comment comes of agressive. I am offended by the things you tell your children about people like me, but I don't mean to be unkind. I respect your right to draw your conclusions and I wish all good for you and your family. I just wish you would tell your children that there are also intelligent religious people - I actually have an intelligence test to prove that :)<br />ElizaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-51732503547051491222012-11-08T22:47:01.820-06:002012-11-08T22:47:01.820-06:00Naomi, this is an EXCELLENT way to lay the foundat...Naomi, this is an EXCELLENT way to lay the foundation for critical thinking!<br />So glad you commented!<br />KarenKarenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03309932952235453461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-69722706401330246932012-11-08T10:13:50.710-06:002012-11-08T10:13:50.710-06:00We found that teaching the energy cycle concept re...We found that teaching the energy cycle concept really early to the kids helped with a lot of the pain that comes up regarding death. Everything feeds something, one thing dying usually helps something else, etc. The kids jumped to reflecting our non-belief(despite me telling them that belief is something that they should think about when they're older and then decide what makes sense to them) so we've talked about how we can always be honest about what we believe while not "being mean" or unkind when others talk about their beliefs. Which hasn't stopped us from hushing them when they're talking about the impossibility of the Santa story in front of the Santa photo line at the mall. :) Thanks for the article! -NaomiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-84213936021908870352012-11-08T03:47:02.940-06:002012-11-08T03:47:02.940-06:00That does sound great! I am reading Dawkins' ...That does sound great! I am reading Dawkins' "Unweaving the Rainbow" right now and it's such a good read.Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03309932952235453461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-87437268848811255472012-11-07T23:51:02.045-06:002012-11-07T23:51:02.045-06:00Richard Dawkins wrote a book for kids, or for adul...Richard Dawkins wrote a book for kids, or for adults to explore with kids. It's called "The Magic of Reality: How We Know What's Really True." It's really attractive--lots of cool art--but I haven't read it. However, it sounds like a good idea: It discusses questions such as "What is magic?" "Who was the first person?" "When and how did everything begin?" and "Why do bad things happen?" It explores several legends that "answer" the question, and then evidence and scientific discoveries that answer the question, really...at least as far as we now know.<br /><br />I thought that Danice might be interested in looking through this book...<br />Cathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14193364064153971972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-45929602488903446202012-11-06T00:10:52.225-06:002012-11-06T00:10:52.225-06:00Interesting timing...
Just this afternoon my daug...Interesting timing...<br /><br />Just this afternoon my daughter and I were talking to her music teacher when Doctor Who reminded me of the time she was really into the Greek myths and had "decided to believe" in them. LOL She would talk about Zeus and the other gods...LOL. It was pretty cute.Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03309932952235453461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-47334213195378056492012-11-05T11:21:15.972-06:002012-11-05T11:21:15.972-06:00Ayep. Little bit of kismet there. I ordered D'...Ayep. Little bit of kismet there. I ordered D'Aulaires' Book of Greek Myths today, because when I was a kid, I can remember thinking how much cooler having 12 gods was, and since the one I was taught Clearly wasn't working, maybe 12 on my side would. :D<br /><br />Nice piece. :)<br /><br />zoeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-2774771731764949022012-11-05T11:20:13.008-06:002012-11-05T11:20:13.008-06:00Facts might be the wrong word... :) DanicaFacts might be the wrong word... :) DanicaDanica Bridges-Martinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01494981757422848473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4357415193462649988.post-48785560121110510122012-11-05T11:09:54.644-06:002012-11-05T11:09:54.644-06:00Funny that you wrote this post, I was thinking thi...Funny that you wrote this post, I was thinking this myself today. How do you teach them about all beliefs (religious, mythological, etc.) as facts not leaning one way or another? And at what age? Is there a book out there that covers this? :) DanicaDanica Bridges-Martinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01494981757422848473noreply@blogger.com