feminism, daughters, secular parenting, homeschool
Elizabeth thinks of herself as very introverted ...and she can be. But these days she is really out there taking chances, making friends, opening up, and blossoming.
I love it that she is hanging out with people from very different backgrounds and with very different ideals.
The other day she told me about a conversation she had on campus with a guy that she hangs out with, a guy named Allen. Allen was looking for the "cons" of homeschooling. The exchange went something like this:
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Elizabeth thinks of herself as very introverted ...and she can be. But these days she is really out there taking chances, making friends, opening up, and blossoming.
I love it that she is hanging out with people from very different backgrounds and with very different ideals.
The other day she told me about a conversation she had on campus with a guy that she hangs out with, a guy named Allen. Allen was looking for the "cons" of homeschooling. The exchange went something like this:
Elizabeth: Why are you looking for the cons of homeschooling?
Allen: Because my girlfriend is taking her seven-year-old son out of school again. This is the second time.
Elizabeth: Why?
Allen: Because he is getting bullied pretty bad again.
Elizabeth: I'm confused; why do you not want your girlfriend to take her little boy out of school?
Allen: Because he needs to learn to stay and face up to his abusers.
Elizabeth: No, he needs to learn that if someone is abusing you, you leave. Period.
Allen: No, he needs to learn that you stay and fight.
Elizabeth: No, this seven year old needs to learn that his mother hears him and is responding to his needs.
Allen: No, you are wrong.
Elizabeth: No, Allen. I promise you, you are wrong.
Allen: You are a cute little girl; what do you know?
Elizabeth: Huh?
Allen: You are just a cute little girl. What you have to say doesn't mean much to me.
Elizabeth: Oh really, how about when I was helping you figure out how to fill out the job applications the other day? Did what I have to say mean something to you then?
Allen: I mean that men have better opinions.
Elizabeth: Really? Are you aware that you are talking to the biggest feminist on campus?
Allen: OH, did the feminists put these ideas into your head?
Elizabeth: Allen, you don't know me, but no one puts ideas into my head. My head is full of its own ideas.
Allen: How cute you are.
Elizabeth: Never disrespect me again by suggesting that I am nothing but cute. I am strong and fierce and I have no interest in talking with a person who thinks like you do. *Gets up and walks away. Comes home and tells me the ten thousand things she wishes she would have said.*
Don't worry, Elizabeth, there are more Allens in the world;
you will get to say all of that!
GO MY GIRL!!!!!!!!!!!
I have gotten negative comments on the pic
of Elizabeth flipping me off
(OR, as she says "Flicking me off") ;)
What do you think of the pic?
(OR, as she says "Flicking me off") ;)
What do you think of the pic?
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Other Posts You Might Enjoy:
Growing Pains
Dear Me: Being the Mom
A Parental Confession
Shooshy: Raising My Daughter
How I Planned to be as a Parent
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